Sunday, May 3, 2009

so, this guy from work asked me on a date. well.. i said yes of couse beacuse i dont turn anyone done. it was just a first date. well.. it started out by him being 20 mintues late. he came to my house and picked me up. He turned and purked his lips when i got into the car. so , i turned my face so he can kiss my cheek. I thought that was odd, becuase i dont really know this boy. it might be part of his culture because he is from Thaiti. so, we were driving and he was like, alright. what do you wanta do. he didnt have anything planned. so, i knew of some friends having a party and so i said, we could do there. so, we did and we hung out there for a bit, and he didnt really talk. he was texting. then my friends were like, oh we wanta go to this dance and so, i was like, hey date, you wanta go? He said sure. we go to the dance and it was all highschool kids mostly, but it was somewhat fun, so we stayed. then he was trying to dance interesting and i wasnt down with that. LOL. then so, we were leaving and he asked, how jelous do i get, i was confused. He was trying to say, if i was dating someone, would i get jelous if they were hitting on someonen or flirting with someone else. thats just weird. anyway.. we went back to my friends house because i was doing laundry there and i didnt finish. anyway.. I asked to call it a night because i needed to go to bed soon because i had a church meeting at 8am, and it was midnight by now. so, i was like, well. thanks for the date. and he leaned for a kiss and i was like, oh you wanta kiss me on my cheek again. he said, no, i wanta kiss you on the lips. I said, i dont kiss boys like that on a first date and i would only do that if i were dating someone. He looked at me and said, i am taking this seriously and i think we are dating. "dont you like me like that"? i said, " I dont know you that well and we would need to go on a few more dates to see where it would go". he said, : well, to me, we are dating" i was like, alright. well, i told him maybe it is a culture difference there, but i just dont do that. then he told me that kissing is not a big deal b/c he kisses his mom on the lips all the time. i told him, well, i dont do that. i will give you a hug or a kiss on the cheek. he said he will take a high 5 . i was like, alright.. he said, so are you going to text me to invite me to go on another date. i told him that, sure we can, but i will be out of town. he was like, where are you going and why? i thought that was somewhat weird. anyway.. then.... then i was like, i will text you. he said, if you dont, i wont talk with you anymore. i was like, oh gosh.. i said, i will text you , but i dont think i can do anything with you tomorrow. its sunday. i wanta relax and sometimes i am with the family and such. so yeah. i dont wanta put up with a awkward boy anymore.oh and his driving.. it was super scary too.. i thought i was going to die a few times anyway.. now i will see him at work and it will be awkward maybe.. lucky we dont work around each other.. well... that was my date. so, dear friends. let me hear your opinion about what i should do, go on another date with the poor kid or not..????